Somewhen last week I figured that my relationship to kink is different than from my relationship to gender or sexuality. I would consider myself as trans and very demisexual, if I had to put it into words I would say “I am trans” and “I am demisexual”. With kink it is different… Instead of „being…
Schlagwort: kink 101
What I like about kink and what I am looking for in it – More rambling
Last time I presented one possibility to figure out what things I chose from the list and why… now I will just deepen the topic, because I had a lot more thoughts about it… But before we dive into that, I figured it would be a good idea to clarify what I like about BDSM…
How to figure out (my) kinks – The first attempt
The earliest encounter with the BDSM community that I can remember was my first CSD. I was somewhere between seven and twelve years old, and my mother and I were standing in one of the city centre drugstores that weekend. Outside, a sea of colours, people, glitter and noise was raging; inside me, the first…