One evening I found myself once again sitting on the big red couch that belonged to good friends of mine. we were eating dinner, chatting and waiting for the beginning of a mediocre film that some other friends picked out. Since we spoke about the last kink party, they both had attended I wished that…
Schlagwort: gender
The „vicious“ genders of diaries
As a maybe-future historian, I regularly find myself in the predicament of having a promising thought but lacking historical sources. And without sources: no thesis, no term paper, no essay… it was frustrating. It got more frustrating if I thought about the following: Depending on your research question everything can be a source. Historical science…
The rabbit hole of Strap on Sex
Let me start the reflection with a rant. I had very little to do with Strap On Sex up to this point. It was one of those things that was shouted across the schoolyard when certain boys felt they had to prove themselves to everyone. The consequences were either eye-rolling or detention, depending on who…
„When did you know?!“
„When did you realise that you were trans?“ is a question that I personally haven’t been asked very often, but it’s one that the media likes to throw around every now and then. On the one hand, I can understand the curiosity of cis-people, on the other hand, I have always had to sigh when…